WIM - Subcriber Articles

Church Planting Is For Women, Too!

Tue, 07 Feb 2012 14:34:59 CST

The leaders of the district asked me to consider planting a church. My first reaction was, "Who wants to attend a church with a woman minister?"

Decisions, Decisions

Tue, 07 Feb 2012 14:32:07 CST

Working intentionally to not say yes to everything has been a long process for me.

Those Big Little Choices

Tue, 07 Feb 2012 14:27:48 CST

Getting the little choices right is the key to handling the big stuff.

The Word Became Flesh and Blood, and Moved Into the Neighborhood

Tue, 24 Jan 2012 12:51:53 CST

I did something unusual 6 months ago. As a grown woman somewhere north of 40 years old, I moved into a residence hall on a university campus in Washington, DC. Let me be a little more specific: I moved into a freshman residence hall.

Perseverance in an Impatient World

Tue, 24 Jan 2012 12:49:49 CST

I listen to so many different complaints throughout my days at work that this didn't come fast enough or perhaps this person didn't respond as quickly as needed in the individual's perspective. We live in an impatient world.

Women in Ministry: An 80-Year-Old Woman Speaks

Tue, 24 Jan 2012 12:36:20 CST

"I won't be attending church anymore," Earl stated as he dropped his wife off at the church where my husband and I had just been elected as pastors in 1956. "I hear your wife is a preacher, and I don't believe in women preachers."

Life Happens

Tue, 10 Jan 2012 10:52:22 CST

While the disturbances of my schedule can cause a good deal of stress - especially when I am passing deadlines and breaking promises - the events that regularly demolish my schedule comprise the real essence of life.

Celebrating the Small Stuff

Tue, 10 Jan 2012 10:50:41 CST

If you are a small church plant, remember what God has called you to do and celebrate the small stuff.

How Do You Wear Your Pain?

Tue, 10 Jan 2012 10:47:08 CST

From our years of ministry experience we can often tell just by observing the way a person walks, dresses, and engages with others what might be going on in her life.

Access Granted

Fri, 16 Dec 2011 10:41:17 CST

From the beginning of Scripture to the end, the Lord extends an invitation for people to come to Him. Let's make sure we're not locking the doors on them.

Living in the Moment

Fri, 16 Dec 2011 10:38:14 CST

Concentrate with praise on the little moments that make up the days that make up our lives.

Let Go

Fri, 16 Dec 2011 10:36:28 CST

When I feel overwhelmed and out-of-control, Jesus is never surprised by what happens in my life.

Humor for the Holidays

Thu, 15 Dec 2011 09:40:24 CST

If you are under some heavy burdens during this season, I encourage you to consider following five ideas to add some humor to your holiday season.

Honoring the Different Paths of Ministry

Thu, 15 Dec 2011 09:36:33 CST

Each woman in ministry must prayerfully consider how she will balance marriage, family, and ministry in her own life.

Thriving and Not Just Surviving the Holidays

Thu, 01 Dec 2011 10:59:03 CST

The Christmas season brings a lot of overtime hours for those in pastoral ministry.

The Power of Story

Thu, 01 Dec 2011 10:55:14 CST

Have you shared your ministry and life story with other women in missions ministry?

Looking Ahead Through My Rearview Mirror

Thu, 01 Dec 2011 10:47:59 CST

You can't spend your whole time looking in the rearview mirror when you drive, but it's indispensible for appreciating the past and navigating for an exciting future.

Three Reasons Not to Be a Life-Long Learner

Tue, 15 Nov 2011 15:39:24 CST

I believe most of us want to grow and improve and mature. But there are three thoughts that often get in our way.

Predictability

Tue, 15 Nov 2011 15:31:19 CST

Jesus didn't heal people or perform miracles by a formula. We can't either.

Our Good Shepherd

Tue, 15 Nov 2011 15:27:39 CST

As I return to my husband and other two children on the field, I am confident that the Good Shepherd is tending to all of us.

Draw Me Nearer

Wed, 19 Oct 2011 13:24:28 CST

Ministry has its bright times, sad times, victorious times, and times when all you have is enough strength to lean hard into Jesus.

Even If He Does Not

Wed, 19 Oct 2011 13:20:15 CST

Are you giving God the freedom to work in your life and church, or are you giving Him limited options from which to choose?

Stay the Course

Wed, 19 Oct 2011 13:16:08 CST

A few years ago I began a fun little venture. Whenever I meet a seasoned ministry leader, I ask a simple but direct question: "What did you wish you knew about ministry when you were my age?"

More Than Enough

Wed, 05 Oct 2011 13:42:22 CST

A week of grief taught me four important things.

Some Dark Thoughts

Wed, 05 Oct 2011 13:37:00 CST

By the time you read this Youcef Nadarkhani could be in heaven. He is an Iranian pastor accused of converting from Islam.

Bloom Once More

Wed, 05 Oct 2011 13:30:20 CST

The "root system" of the lessons we learned in our previous experience makes us grow vibrantly in our new season of life.

Life in the Parentheses

Thu, 22 Sep 2011 10:10:19 CST

We have seasons of our lives when we feel sidelined, beside the point, shelved. Times when we are battling critical illness, or are between jobs, or are questioning if we are being fruitful in ministry, or even whether we're called at all. Parentheses. But I have learned one thing about life in a parentheses.

Power Washing

Thu, 22 Sep 2011 10:06:38 CST

We need God's power washing to save us and sustain us in our busy and sometimes challenging lives.

Walking with Jesus through the Red Light District

Thu, 22 Sep 2011 10:04:39 CST

In the midst of a part of Kolkata that few visitors to India ever see, hidden far behind the main streets of the city, Mita continues to shine brightly a hope that comes only through the transforming power of God.

Pastors and Counseling

Thu, 08 Sep 2011 13:16:10 CST

I have found that a couple of classes in Bible school or seminary do not make you a counselor.

Transitions

Wed, 07 Sep 2011 13:05:45 CST

I believe God would speak to many more of us to move out if He could only be heard over our fears and our comfortable, stuck-in-the-mud ways.

Wildly Scattering Seed

Wed, 07 Sep 2011 13:02:45 CST

When I hear someone say "that place" or "those people" are too hard to reach with the gospel, I can't agree. We can't wait for the right people or the right time. We need to sow seed all the time and everywhere we go.

Expectations in Suffering

Thu, 25 Aug 2011 13:27:20 CST

In Scripture there are countless accounts of exciting times in serving God that came in difficult circumstances. Expect the same today.

Dust

Thu, 25 Aug 2011 13:25:09 CST

If someone else was covered in the dust of our home, our neighborhood, and our community, what kind of person would he or she become?

The Dirty Work of Discipleship

Thu, 25 Aug 2011 13:21:35 CST

We are all called to the work of making disciples. Here are a few keys to making disciples that I found effective.

Deal With Your Stuff

Fri, 22 Jul 2011 09:41:45 CST

Twenty-plus years of ministry in the same church can cause a person to collect a lot of "stuff."

Mentoring: Remembering the Dream

Fri, 22 Jul 2011 09:34:10 CST

I have found that when I take time to invest in someone younger than myself, I gain new perspective on my current responsibilities.

Music in the Night: Cross-Cultural Lessons Around a Campfire

Fri, 22 Jul 2011 09:29:57 CST

We have the responsibility and the joy of giving others from differing cultures, socio-economic backgrounds, or age groups the opportunity to hear the message of Jesus clothed in song and word forms with which they can identify.

Manalive

Fri, 22 Jul 2011 09:24:01 CST

Let's be appreciative of what we have and the ministry and the people God has given us.

Graffiti: What Has Someone Written on Your Life?

Fri, 22 Jul 2011 09:18:43 CST

Every one of us has had someone graffiti our lives with mean, belittling, or untrue words. So what do we do with this graffiti?

Have You Lost It?

Tue, 12 Jul 2011 12:57:04 CST

You and I have the power of the Holy Spirit living within us every day. It is our daily choice whether we seek Him or lose Him.

The Fruit of Giving to Missions

Tue, 12 Jul 2011 12:53:06 CST

Giving so that young people can experience ministry in another culture can make a huge impact and pay dividends for the rest of their lives.

Wanted: Emotionally Healthy Leaders

Tue, 12 Jul 2011 12:44:44 CST

Effective ministry demands a healthy leader.

Gifts

Thu, 30 Jun 2011 13:30:58 CST

There are times as a woman in ministry that I don't feel like my gifts are enough or even that special when I compare them to others.

Searching for Someone

Thu, 30 Jun 2011 13:28:11 CST

We have been searching for staff for a full 10 months now. The search for three part-time leaders (worship, youth, and children) is equal parts frustration and desperation.

No Secret

Thu, 30 Jun 2011 13:24:32 CST

I grew up on music of the Gaithers. My missionary dad had outfitted our Speed the Light vehicle with an eight-track tape deck, and I was sure that Bill and Gloria lived inside it.

Send Me

Thu, 16 Jun 2011 15:10:31 CST

"Here I am, Lord. Send me," I said, arms stretched out. With background music playing softly, a hundred other college students swayed beside me in worship. That was the night I answered God's call to follow Him into full-time ministry. So, what exactly does that mean if I've been staying at home with my two kids the past 10 years?

Footsteps, Finger-Posts, and Danger Signals

Thu, 16 Jun 2011 14:59:13 CST

Just over 10 years ago, during the bleakest era of my ministry life, I began a personal reading program.

Have You Set Your Face?

Thu, 16 Jun 2011 14:55:04 CST

As I reflect on the example in the life of Jesus, the following question comes to my heart: Have I set my face toward that which the Lord has called me?

I'm Not Judgmental, You Are

Thu, 02 Jun 2011 12:57:54 CST

It's easy to point a finger and say, "That person is judgmental," but often much harder (and disappointing) to believe the judgment comes from us.

Burnt Offerings and Fruit Loops

Thu, 02 Jun 2011 12:49:54 CST

After many years in pastoral ministry, and quite a number of those years spent mentoring others beginning in ministry, I recently found myself with what seemed to be a mentorship gone awry.

Bloom Where You Are Replanted

Thu, 02 Jun 2011 12:29:16 CST

Even though I haven't arrived at the place of perfect peace and contentedness, I do feel I'm starting to settle in this foreign soil as I allow God to replant me and let my roots grow here.

High Days and Other Days

Wed, 18 May 2011 09:59:12 CST

My prayer for myself, and you, if you need it, is "Lord, tenderize my heart. Keep me sensitive, ready, aware of the ministry You want to accomplish today."

Ponderings on Pans of Concrete

Wed, 18 May 2011 09:54:56 CST

As I ponder the many kinds of ministries we women are involved in, I realize that every part of society has been touched by women, and each is indispensable.

Are You Supposed to be Lonely at the Top?

Wed, 18 May 2011 09:51:17 CST

God has called us, especially as leaders, to be intentional relationship builders.

The School of "Hard Knocks"

Thu, 05 May 2011 14:37:43 CST

When I reflect back on my parents' life and ministry together, several important things come to mind that I learned as an apprentice of two who had received their graduate degrees from the School of Hard Knocks.

Imitating Christ

Thu, 05 May 2011 14:33:14 CST

When my husband and I along with our children landed in the country of our first overseas assignment, I quickly went about trying to imitate the culture, including the way of cooking as well as the local dress.

Prayers From Pain

Thu, 05 May 2011 14:30:06 CST

A decade ago I was a battered and battle-weary survivor of a church war.

Emotional Intelligence - What's That?

Wed, 20 Apr 2011 14:21:55 CST

When we explore the different genres of thought within the world, we are better equipped to share God's truth in the Areopagus to which God sends us.

The Mission Consists of Moments

Wed, 20 Apr 2011 14:15:50 CST

If we want to minister like Jesus, then we must remember that ministry happens along the journey.

Change the Atmosphere!

Wed, 20 Apr 2011 14:13:21 CST

When we enter a place, whether it be in person, on the phone, or online, the atmosphere should change for the better simply because we are there and we are God's leader on the scene.

When the Call Clashes with the Dream

Thu, 07 Apr 2011 13:40:41 CST

What happens when your ministry calling clashes with the common sense that tells you how to attain your dreams?

Good Friday: The Separation of the Trinity

Thu, 07 Apr 2011 13:36:48 CST

The give and take of the Trinity is a beautiful example to us of how we need to behave toward one another.

Freedom

Fri, 25 Mar 2011 09:16:31 CST

Critics of Christianity say Christians live a boxed-in life, closed off from the true freedoms available in this life. Yet, here is the other thing I was learning: discipline gave freedom.

Choosing Joy

Fri, 25 Mar 2011 09:12:27 CST

If you've been in pastoral ministry for more than a day, you know there is plenty of frustration you didn't anticipate that comes with leading people.

What's in Your Pantry?

Fri, 25 Mar 2011 09:10:31 CST

"Why is it that Mormons are so nice?" This is the question I asked my friend Tammy who grew up in a Mormon home.

St. Patrick Was a Pentecostal

Fri, 11 Mar 2011 14:49:59 CST

May Patrick's life be a reminder to us that Pentecostals are a bold people.

Acts of Kindness

Fri, 11 Mar 2011 14:47:22 CST

After all the years of ministering to international students in my home, I was on the other side, experiencing it from their perspective.

When People Leave Your Church

Fri, 11 Mar 2011 14:45:06 CST

Pastors can often sense when a church member is getting ready to leave the church. Sheep seem to follow the same patterns of behavior universally when it comes to beginning to graze in other pastures.

The Long Wait

Thu, 24 Feb 2011 10:03:29 CST

I can't think of anything more difficult for me than waiting. I don't like waiting in lines at the grocery store, airport, bank, or doctor's office. Even more, waiting for an answer from God is painfully difficult for me.

Pay Attention to the Botts' Dots

Thu, 24 Feb 2011 10:00:05 CST

Thank God for the Botts' Dots of family and friends, Word and music and Spirit and grace, partners in ministry, fresh mercies every morning, and the little snatches of rest and relaxation we can carve out of busy schedules.

Tending the Spark of Inspiration

Thu, 24 Feb 2011 09:56:07 CST

In the past few months, I have come to value the role of a coach in my life and ministry.

Girls for Sale

Fri, 11 Feb 2011 09:15:42 CST

Of the top ten prostituted areas in the country, the Seattle/Tacoma area, my home, ranks among the highest.

Chi Alpha and the Single Woman

Fri, 11 Feb 2011 09:13:01 CST

I can't speak for every "single" woman in ministry, but in my experience Chi Alpha is a great place for women.

Real Love Is More Than a Craft Project

Fri, 11 Feb 2011 09:10:19 CST

The kind of love talked about in the Bible is anything but sappy. It is hard, costly, and deep.

World Changers

Fri, 28 Jan 2011 13:04:04 CST

If I could change the world, I surely would have begun by letting God truly change me.

When Ministry Comes Home

Fri, 28 Jan 2011 13:00:55 CST

Many times I have been asked the question, "What does the chaplain do when the chaplain needs a chaplain?" Interesting question and one that isn't easy to answer.

Who Cares About Creation?

Fri, 28 Jan 2011 12:53:59 CST

Although it wasn't until a year ago that I began thinking of the theological basis for creation care, one might say I have been a pathological recycler for the last two decades.

What Am I Doing Wrong?

Thu, 13 Jan 2011 11:14:10 CST

The ups and downs of ministry will come and what you do or don't do may have little to do with it at any given time.

Places

Thu, 13 Jan 2011 11:00:15 CST

We have been in so many places as missionaries. As privileged as we have been to see, live in, and experience many places, we find ourselves not wanting to move to another one.

Generous Yet Undepleted

Thu, 13 Jan 2011 10:56:58 CST

Investing in others increases our own spiritual harvest.

Pursue Your Calling

Thu, 16 Dec 2010 14:01:39 CST

When I first answered the call of God to the ministry, I had three young children. My feelings about His call were mixed and deeply emotional.

My Turkmen Friend Speaks Spanish

Thu, 16 Dec 2010 13:59:23 CST

Nuria is from Turkmenistan, but we cannot meet there. Her school and my work cause us to intersect in another Central Asian country.

Mommies of Chi Alpha: Mixing Motherhood and Ministry Life

Fri, 03 Dec 2010 10:12:37 CST

As a new mom, I was instantly faced with the fact that my ministry schedule had to change. The problem was that I didn't quite know how and what to change.

Monsoon Season

Fri, 03 Dec 2010 10:11:36 CST

The Monsoon winds of life can be devastating, but God doesn't intend for us to drown. Here are some ways to survive.

Hidden in Plain Sight

Fri, 03 Dec 2010 10:05:03 CST

We may think we hide our sins, weaknesses, and flaws from others. But those of us who serve in church are "hidden" in full view, and our ministry roles allow everyone to eventually see us clearly.

Parents of the Prodigal

Fri, 19 Nov 2010 10:18:41 CST

We were serving as missionaries in Malawi, Africa, when we received the disturbing and heartbreaking phone call from our son who was in college in the U.S.

What Does a Giant Look Like?

Fri, 19 Nov 2010 10:15:12 CST

There was one big difference between the way David viewed Goliath and the way everyone else did. The crowds ... were transfixed by the problem, so much so that they couldn't come up with a solution. This is the way we sometimes think about our ministry leadership situations.

Life is Precious

Fri, 19 Nov 2010 10:10:02 CST

One of the greatest dangers we face in ministry is the defensive reaction of hardening our heart toward painful realities. But we cannot be effective in ministry with hard hearts.

Who Calls You Mama?

Wed, 03 Nov 2010 13:34:03 CST

Spiritual parenting is the job of every mature believer, and pastors should lead the way.

Swimming Upstream: Single and Female in Ministry

Wed, 03 Nov 2010 13:30:47 CST

The first words out of his mouth were, "I didn't think I was going to be able to receive from you because you're a woman." Wow, what a way to greet a visiting missionary!

The Beauty of Inadequacy

Wed, 03 Nov 2010 13:27:23 CST

I know that women specialize in the gift of multitasking. But when it comes to ministry, there is a real danger of thinking that we can do it all.

God's Positioning System

Thu, 21 Oct 2010 09:43:53 CST

When you find yourself on one of life's dark roads, God's positioning system is the Holy Spirit. Look for the signs He sends your way.

Someday the Room Will Change

Thu, 21 Oct 2010 09:41:06 CST

My heart goes out to those experiencing difficulties in ministry, especially those freshly hurt by a conflict in the body of Christ.

Tough Conversations

Thu, 21 Oct 2010 09:38:12 CST

Why are tough conversations so hard? And more importantly, is there any way to get better at them?

Prepared - Now What?

Fri, 08 Oct 2010 12:55:50 CST

How do you move forward with what God has called you to do?

Reflections on Vision from a Football Pro

Fri, 08 Oct 2010 12:49:18 CST

Leading with vision in front of the entire team is harder than I once thought.

A Spa for the Soul

Fri, 08 Oct 2010 12:45:49 CST

Someone has said, and I've found it to be true, "Fruitful doing is rooted in restful being with God."

My New Motto

Thu, 23 Sep 2010 08:26:28 CST

I'm 25, the first female music minister at my new church, and the only woman on the pastoral staff .... I'm swallowing hard. I'm terrified.

My Cup Overflows

Thu, 23 Sep 2010 08:20:18 CST

Sometimes living overseas I find myself heading toward discontented thoughts. "My neighbor is never going to come to Christ." "Why does the electricity keep going out?" "Why do I have to be away from my family?" "Why do they hate Americans so?"

Disappointments

Thu, 23 Sep 2010 08:16:45 CST

Life can be disappointing. If you work in a church like I do, you and I could swap stories of disappointment for hours.

What Was That Last Fight Really All About?

Fri, 10 Sep 2010 09:48:23 CST

I had already dialed the area code on my phone. That's how close I came to calling a conference host to ask if I could change my preaching topic.

The Contemplative Christian

Fri, 10 Sep 2010 09:43:33 CST

You have most definitely seen the bracelets and heard the phrase "What Would Jesus Do?" but could it be possible that another phrase is also needed - the phrase, "What Would Jesus Think?"

Woman in Her Full Power

Fri, 10 Sep 2010 09:35:14 CST

Women must continually be challenged to minister from their unique feminine, God-given perspective.

Raving Fans

Fri, 27 Aug 2010 14:38:35 CST

Our biannual pastoral staff planning retreat is quickly approaching, and I was asked to teach a seminar on creating "raving fans" - church volunteers that are sold out for Jesus and ministry.

Making Investments

Fri, 27 Aug 2010 14:31:58 CST

Most investments need much more time to yield their fruit. Ministering to students means taking the long approach. Right now, we make deposits and wait till they grow up to see to see what happens.

Don't Do Anything Stupid

Fri, 27 Aug 2010 14:29:01 CST

As I was reading Scripture a while back, I was struck by the number of leaders in the Old Testament who started out serving the Lord, but ended up not doing so. Somewhere, part way through, they gave up the effort and caved in to the opposing voices.

Stop Climbing the Ladder

Fri, 13 Aug 2010 12:47:46 CST

Vince Lombardi put it this way: "Perfection is not attainable, but if we chase perfection we can catch excellence."

From the Other Side of the Bed

Fri, 13 Aug 2010 12:46:10 CST

My mother grabbed her chest and fell back into a chair, saying that she wasn't feeling well. Immediately, we were all up from the table and at my mom's side. Shortly thereafter, my Mom was taken by ambulance to the very hospital where I serve as a chaplain.

Splintered Staffs

Fri, 13 Aug 2010 12:40:44 CST

Confidence is not a bad thing. It is a necessary element of healthy ministry and leadership, but it must not be misplaced.

Singing the Songs of Zion

Fri, 30 Jul 2010 09:48:05 CST

Churches are funny. They say and do things that are incomprehensible to outsiders.

Yankee, Go Home!

Fri, 30 Jul 2010 09:44:44 CST

Living in a predominantly Muslim country can be hard for an American Christian.

Learning to Lead Softly

Fri, 30 Jul 2010 09:38:31 CST

Attitudes change and acceptance of women in ministry increases as we lead softly, giving the gift of our presence.

Closing the Gap between Perception and Reality

Fri, 16 Jul 2010 12:54:21 CST

I was so excited about the message I was to preach. I had gone over and over it, getting a sense of how it would flow, how the momentum would build. I could hardly wait. Then I started preaching.

For the Sake of Memories

Fri, 16 Jul 2010 12:47:03 CST

This month the Koeshall household is focused on one enormous project: downsizing and moving. Going from a home big enough to hold all the children plus offices for the ministry to a two-bedroom apartment requires giving away, throwing away, and consolidating.

Ministry Lessons from a Biker Chick

Thu, 15 Jul 2010 13:50:37 CST

Ministry life in 21st century America, as it turns out, is a lot like motorcycling.

Divine Detours

Thu, 01 Jul 2010 10:54:22 CST

In order to get my foot in the door of ministry at our church as a woman pastor, I had to take the long way around.

Reinvention

Thu, 01 Jul 2010 10:50:54 CST

My husband and I had been in campus ministry for 15 years. Our children were in college, and we were feeling like our days were numbered with students. We thought we were losing our relevance.

"John 3:16 Gospel Tract" 3 Cents

Thu, 01 Jul 2010 10:48:49 CST

Mary McAlee, recent convert, clean for nearly a year, wife of a continuing user, mother of five, started over when mercy came to her. Weekly, she brought her five wiggly, scraggly urchins to the front row of our sanctuary every time there was a service.

Open Wide the Doors

Fri, 18 Jun 2010 09:20:38 CST

Sometimes God opens a window or door in front of us. And, yet, sometimes we sit and gaze longingly into the unknown, considering possibilities without taking the chance to step away from safety and routines.

Wow, What a Ride!

Fri, 18 Jun 2010 09:15:28 CST

When we first arrived in Croatia, I did not like living there. I complained to God about every challenge and difficulty I encountered. Finally, one day the Holy Spirit responded, "Why can't you just enjoy the ride?"

Called or Capable

Fri, 18 Jun 2010 09:10:41 CST

Are you doing what God called you to do or are you doing everything else?

Blogging for Impact

Fri, 04 Jun 2010 13:14:26 CST

Blogging has opened up many opportunities for me to minister to and connect with my congregation, and has helped me to expand my ministry beyond church walls.

Seek My Face

Fri, 04 Jun 2010 13:07:34 CST

Yesterday started out with a fury. My list of what I thought were priorities for the day was before me, and I started prioritizing my priorities. Then that precious, still, small voice came. "Peggy, seek My face."

Dreams in the Basement

Fri, 04 Jun 2010 13:03:54 CST

This spring I visited a unique museum. I did not need to travel far for this educational experience. The museum entrance is the brown door a few steps from my kitchen stove.

Grand Assurance

Mon, 24 May 2010 11:08:51 CST

Muslim women hope for heaven. They don their veils and strive in all ways possible to honor their husbands and their communities. They work to be everything they are told they cannot be for a chance to spend eternity in paradise.

Incomparably Great Power

Mon, 24 May 2010 11:05:44 CST

All of us have certain profound, spiritual experiences which mark us. We can't shake them, and they recur in our thinking, often with strong images attached.

Do You Smell Something?

Mon, 24 May 2010 11:03:19 CST

Does anyone smell that?"

Several women from our church were gathered around a kitchen counter, talking and laughing, when the question was asked. I realized that the questioner had just verbalized what my nose had figured out quite some time ago. Yes, I did smell something! I looked down and found the handle of my purse lying in a candle, producing a sizeable flame.

Solitude

Thu, 06 May 2010 13:27:25 CST

Pastoral ministry requires solitude to refresh and refuel energy and passion for the call on our life.

Cultural Conundrums: Group vs. Self Identity

Thu, 06 May 2010 13:22:25 CST

When traveling to another country for a short- or long-term mission, it is normal to experience feelings of displacement, discomfort, and discombobulation. You anticipate a wonderful experience. You know that the Lord has led you to this place. Why then should you feel so awkward? Culture is the culprit!

Staying the Course

Thu, 06 May 2010 13:18:37 CST

My hands gripped the steering wheel to the point that a bit of white was showing on my knuckles.

"I just don't understand how some people can get so close to finishing a doctoral degree and then just let things go on and on and on! You'd think they'd want to get that thing done!"

Being Comfortable With the Unknown

Fri, 23 Apr 2010 09:36:10 CST

By the time the morning was over, God had worked a miracle scenario that we could never have dreamed up!

Put Your Own Oxygen Mask on First

Fri, 23 Apr 2010 09:31:54 CST

We've all heard the discouraging statistics about burnout among ministers. Too many are stressed out, exhausted, disillusioned, and emotionally and spiritually spent. For whatever reason, our spiritual oxygen has been cut off and we have little to offer another struggling soul.

Fighting Fear

Fri, 23 Apr 2010 09:28:06 CST

The Word tells us that perfect love casts out all fear. I have Jesus and His perfect love, so I should be fearless, right? I wish that this were the case, but to be honest, much of my time is spent consumed with fear.

Becoming Irreplaceable

Thu, 08 Apr 2010 14:21:43 CST

Recently, I was feeling like I was running at 100 miles per hour. I was doing the things I was supposed to be doing, but it didn't feel like any of it mattered. If I would pause for a moment in the busyness of ministry, I could hear my heart asking, "What am I supposed to be doing?" An odd question in a season where I felt like I was already juggling more then I could handle.

To Do

Thu, 08 Apr 2010 14:19:33 CST

We come to the field with this great expectation of evangelizing the masses and always "being about our Father's business," but then reality sets in.

The Schizophrenic Leader

Thu, 08 Apr 2010 14:16:37 CST

There are days that my job in ministry is as easy as making a peanut butter and jelly sandwich. And then there are days when I feel like I am climbing Mt. Rushmore, without legs.

Success By God

Thu, 25 Mar 2010 13:45:24 CST

I thank God for mission events and furloughs, times to help us regroup, refocus, and refuel our hearts for the mission fields we are called by God to labor in. This gives us the confidence and the assurance to know that we are succeeding for God.

Good People

Thu, 25 Mar 2010 13:43:13 CST

Culture has turned morals upside down. Seemingly, all it takes to be a "good" person is to have friends who will speak up for us and defend us, regardless of our behavior. In today's world, killing unborn children is fine, but disturbing the nest of turtles on the Galapagos Islands is wrong. Living together outside of marriage is a "good test" for compatibility, but littering is immoral.

Here I Come, Ready or Not!

Thu, 25 Mar 2010 13:37:18 CST

In our childhood games we have probably all uttered the words, "Here I come, ready or not!" We would then march out with purpose and set about finding hidden playmates. However, I have recently pictured these words being uttered by our Lord, and when He says them, we had better be ready! It will be no game.

A One-Woman Novelty Act

Thu, 11 Mar 2010 13:32:24 CST

Which would you rather be: a solo-novelty act or a part of a great symphony?

Possessing the Promise

Thu, 11 Mar 2010 13:29:09 CST

God has given me personal promises and promises for the nation where I serve as a missionary. I have found that sometimes it is difficult to keep those promises alive in my heart, especially when it takes a long time to see them fulfilled, or when I face difficulties that discourage me. To keep myself from disappointment and discouragement, I focus on consistently practicing the following.

Captain of the Team

Thu, 11 Mar 2010 13:25:41 CST

How justice, mercy, humility look on tough days.

Someone Like Me

Thu, 25 Feb 2010 13:36:31 CST

I had been looking forward to this lunch for weeks. It was the first meeting of the women senior pastors in our district.

My Two-Word Pep Talk

Thu, 25 Feb 2010 13:32:53 CST

In the swirl of activities that comprise my day, I do not have the time for a long locker room speech to spur me forward. Yet, I have found all the pep talk I need in two little words, "It matters!"

The Nature of Discipleship

Thu, 25 Feb 2010 13:30:23 CST

Is childlike joy the perfect mate to servant leadership? Would some of us, in our sincere desire to "live as Jesus lived," become so obsessed with the work of a servant that we forget that to truly reflect and embody the life of Christ, we must work with joy?

The Art of Asking Questions

Tue, 09 Feb 2010 13:02:43 CST

The art of expressing ideas, sharing thoughts, and exchanging information is just that - it is an art. Some seem to be born with a gift for it, while others gain expertise during their formative years. However, for most of us, it is an acquired skill forged through a lifetime of trial and error.

Navigating the Storm

Tue, 09 Feb 2010 13:00:22 CST

The day is etched in my memory. I decided to go fishing alone in my father's small fishing boat. It was a beautiful morning as I headed to the part of the lake that always seemed to be the best fishing spot. As I concentrated on fishing, I failed to recognize the storm that was brewing. Soon the dark clouds rolled over head and the wind came up. The waves were getting larger and I knew that I had to move quickly.

Living in Ice?

Tue, 09 Feb 2010 12:56:11 CST

Recently, I was in San Juan, Puerto Rico. It was a sunny 90 degrees there when we left the airport and minus 10 degrees when we arrived in Minneapolis. I do not believe it was ever God's intention for anyone to undergo a 100 degree differentiation in less than a 24-hour period, but I had to adjust nonetheless.

Dream Again

Tue, 26 Jan 2010 14:15:27 CST

This past year, I was having a difficult time in my position as connections pastor at my church and was feeling discouraged, inadequate, and overwhelmed. I would try and think about what I wanted to do, and couldn't really come up with one idea to pursue or direction that God was leading me.

My Story, Mary's Story

Tue, 26 Jan 2010 14:10:53 CST

Recently, as I stood before more than 500 students and staff at a Chi Alpha conference, I was reminded how meaningful that date was for me. I was celebrating the 19th anniversary of the day Jesus called me to be a missionary.

Loving More

Tue, 26 Jan 2010 14:07:21 CST

I'm a church kid. Okay, so after the age of 50, it's a slight misnomer to call myself a kid of any kind. But as a third generation PK, I was practically born, and certainly raised, in the church.

Refuse the Red Stew

Thu, 14 Jan 2010 13:00:16 CST

A steaming cup of cocoa warms my hands as I relax after shoveling the snow from my driveway after the latest New England snowstorm. Sitting by my fireplace, I remember a man who once came back from a rigorous hunting trip famished and in need of physical refreshment. On the menu that day was a nice bowl of red stew. The hunter's name was Esau, and the chef preparing the red stew was his younger twin brother Jacob.

Jars of Clay

Thu, 14 Jan 2010 12:57:29 CST

"Look at the prostitute!"I heard somebody say.

I glanced in the pointed direction and my heart sunk. A girl in a skimpy dress with a brazen look on her face was passing by our car. Her revealing dress and extremely high heels were a shocking statement in my Muslim environment.

The Pits or the Stands?

Thu, 14 Jan 2010 11:22:42 CST

I have often compared pastoring to a sometimes uncomfortable front row seat to people's lives. But I think I need to reevaluate the terminology. "Front row" implies a spectator's position, a seat in the stands, and that just isn't what shepherding is about. "The pits" seems much more appropriate.

Things Are Not as Bad as They Seem

Thu, 17 Dec 2009 15:21:12 CST

Last Friday was my "day off." I decided that day to move the furniture and clean the floors completely, not just sweep or use the mop around them. I proceeded to move the couch and found what appeared to be dog "doo-doo" behind it. When the broom hit it, I almost screamed. How could my sweet little dog have done that? I wondered. How long had it been there, and why didn't I smell it? Why is the dog suddenly having accidents? And where else might more doo-doo be?

Leaving a Legacy

Thu, 17 Dec 2009 15:13:36 CST

One of the joyful responsibilities of my current ministry position is the oversight of senior adult ministries. It's an interesting position for me since many of the seniors under my care are folks that I have known my whole life - including my 90-year old father. I serve in the church I have attended since birth. At times, it's a bit humiliating. After all, some of these people changed my diapers. They remember my ruffled dresses, first solos, temper tantrums, adolescence, and high school boyfriends. Somehow, they put up with me and love me in spite of it all.

Debridement of the Soul

Thu, 17 Dec 2009 15:07:07 CST

Jack's wound started with a scratch on his leg that was unattended. Unknown to him, infection set in; not on the surface, but underneath the skin and it burrowed into his muscle. At first, Jack didn't think anything of it. But in time it became difficult for him to walk on that leg. Finally, he went to the doctor.

Hiding Places

Thu, 17 Dec 2009 15:02:57 CST

Up to 6,000 people at once lived in a particular segment of Cappadocia's underground cave system, an area located in central Turkey. These 6th and 7th century Byzantine Christians hid from Persian invaders, mostly, who relentlessly fought to control the Roman Empire. To preserve their faith and lineage, these early Greek believers simply took their lives underground. They persevered in this way for most of two centuries.

Secret Integrity

Thu, 17 Dec 2009 15:00:20 CST

Not long ago, ABC ran a TV news-reality show (along the lines of Dateline or 20/20) called, What Would You Do? In the show, people were secretly filmed in various situations where they had the chance to "step up," to be heroic, decent, and honest, or to cop-out as deceitful, uncaring, cowardly jerks.

Are you a Flight Attendant or a Pilot?

Thu, 17 Dec 2009 14:57:13 CST

It is football season, and with two boys in our house, I spend a large amount of time on the sidelines of the practice field getting to know other parents and players. You could call it a part-time job.

In an introductory conversation with a mom (Mary) of a new football player, Mary stated that she would not be able to see her son play his games because she worked for United Airlines and was scheduled every Saturday. I asked Mary if she was a flight attendant. Mary said no, she was a pilot. I heard a voice in my head say, "Hey, smarty pants, why couldn't you be witty and complimentary by asking her if she was the CEO instead of sticking your foot in your mouth?"

Pulling Together

Fri, 04 Dec 2009 09:24:42 CST

I woke with high energy this morning, thinking about all the things I love about ministry teamwork. The ideas thrown out half-formed for someone to catch and examine, adding his or her expertise and knowledge to create workable designs. The support of others who want us to succeed and shine. The honest interactions that make each member bigger and better than we are alone.

Dangerous Faith

Fri, 04 Dec 2009 09:21:43 CST

Recently, I went through the Check Point Charlie Museum in Berlin with my son-in-law, Hannes. The Berlin wall that separated communism and totalitarianism from freedom fell in 1989. At that time, Hannes was 9 years old.

She Missed the News

Fri, 04 Dec 2009 09:13:29 CST

Ministry women - now gone - still speak to us. Here's a page from the life of my mother, Ruth Homer - a preacher, teacher, pastor, and leader.

Cy Homer, her preacher husband, died in the front seat of their car on a trip through the Arizona desert. Ruth was taking her turn driving on their road trip from Florida to their new retirement home in California.

God's Amazing Women

Wed, 18 Nov 2009 13:22:46 CST

"Pastor, ever since I was baptized in the Spirit last week, I have had a peace like I've never experienced before!"

I wanted to do cartwheels when I heard her testimony. I settled for a big smile, bigger hug, and a quick shout out to heaven, "Thank You, God!"

I Have Not Lived a Rebellious Day

Wed, 18 Nov 2009 13:20:38 CST

At a recent speaking engagement, I began with a prepackaged introduction, one I had shared many times before. But I slipped in a sentence I had not preplanned. I said, "I have not lived a rebellious day in my life. I have followed God with all my heart since I was a child." I quickly moved into my message, and the statement could have been lost and never thought of again.

Embrace the Grace

Wed, 18 Nov 2009 13:16:41 CST

My 26 year old daughter is not yet married. She is a beautiful young woman with a college degree; gainfully employed; a talented worship leader; dedicated to children's ministry; passionate for God. She's one of those women who causes other women to ask, "Are men blind?"

The God Beyond Magic

Thu, 05 Nov 2009 10:01:21 CST

On the ground, ministry isn't always pretty or easy. But as I read, I see how God is beyond quick, magic fixes. He does what He always has done, partnering with ordinary men and women to do the extraordinary.

Seven Things I've Learned Being a Missionary

Thu, 05 Nov 2009 09:58:01 CST

As missionaries, we have to be willing to be adventurers and explorers. Not only explorers of the geographical areas we live in, but eager to discover the foods, customs, and religions of these places.

Sometimes I Need to Sit on the Floor

Thu, 05 Nov 2009 09:52:43 CST

Many times in the Gospels we read that Jesus sat with His disciples. He was not sitting merely to rest a while. Rather, He was sitting down with His disciples to teach them eternal truths in the context of companionship.

I Am a Bridge

Wed, 21 Oct 2009 13:41:41 CST

Recently, I sat back and listened intently to Edith Ssempala, ambassador from Uganda to the United States, as she spoke to our Chi Alpha students at Georgetown University. "The important thing to remember about being a bridge is that a bridge must be strong on both sides. A bridge that is strong on only one side is ineffective." There it is, I thought. Words that describe what I am called to be.

Ripples

Wed, 21 Oct 2009 13:34:16 CST

We can readily recognize the profound influence of Billy Graham's Christlike character that has reached global proportions spanning several generations. We can also attest to the painful ramifications brought on by the poor choices of popular Christian personalities. Whether good or bad, they have a ripple effect which either inspires growth or provides excuses to those caught in the wake.

One of Nine

Wed, 21 Oct 2009 13:24:44 CST

You know the story. Jesus healed ten lepers, and only one returned to thank Him. Apparently, the other nine got so caught up in being healed that they ran back to their families, their lives, picked up where they left off, and got to work paying off the bills. I think, "How could they?" Yet, really, I'm no better.

Hungry

Wed, 07 Oct 2009 14:43:25 CST

Argentina is one of my favorite places in the world to visit. Why? Because the people in the churches want more of God. They don't just say this or sing the phrase - they mean it.

"I Want to be Like Them"

Wed, 07 Oct 2009 14:18:37 CST

Mom, I'm stupid," said my brilliant 5-year-old girl, who is bilingual and can already read in two languages.

"Why do you feel this way?" I asked.

"Because I can't speak the local language that everyone else is speaking," answered my little princess.

Why Women Stop

Wed, 07 Oct 2009 14:15:58 CST

I've seen a lot of women in ministry stop pursuing their ministry calling. I'd like to share with you seven reasons why they do, and why they should not give up.

The Loneliness of Leadership

Tue, 22 Sep 2009 13:52:03 CST

Ministry is an amazing calling and privilege, but with all that it requires of us, it can leave us feeling extremely depleted and alone.

Sharing Your Home with Others

Tue, 22 Sep 2009 13:47:10 CST

In 1992, my husband,Vic, and I moved into a four-story, nine-bedroom house near Portland State University in Oregon where we served as campus pastors. Over the years, we've housed over 75 people from 20 countries.

Designed to Live

Tue, 22 Sep 2009 13:44:13 CST

What, then, is life to me? Is it to live numb and contented in my painless world? Or is it to find joy and hope even in the midst of my pain-filled world?

Out of Context

Thu, 10 Sep 2009 11:10:16 CST

Most nights at about this time my husband and I would be watching the evening news together, but tonight we are tucked into padded theatre seats, expecting to experience a light-hearted play that has gotten good reviews. This is bound to beat a damp weather forecast.

Leading With Our Ears

Thu, 10 Sep 2009 11:08:05 CST

At one time part of my job required me to sit through a 4-hour presentation on verbal S.W.A.T. The focus centered on active listening techniques. What I came away with was an appreciation of the power of listening.

Pass Interference

Thu, 10 Sep 2009 10:59:48 CST

Recently, I did something I have never done before. I called 911 to report another driver. He did not have an accident, he was not driving under the influence, nor did he fit the description of a known felon. Nope, this was just a high school kid looking for a way to entertain himself.

Pastors and Small Children

Wed, 26 Aug 2009 09:11:17 CST

Keeping in touch with the children in any size church is an important aspect of the pastor's ministry. Here are some things I keep in mind and do to minister to the youngest members of my church.

The Call to My Back Yard

Wed, 26 Aug 2009 08:56:58 CST

I can remember being called to the inner city. Although I tried to refute it, I could not shake the internal desire within me to see more spiritual and social productivity being developed in my former hometown.

Race Naked

Wed, 26 Aug 2009 08:54:06 CST

So often in the world of ministry, it is not our sin that hinders us from finishing the race, but all the "other" things. What is weighing you down? Is it the excuses of time or circumstances? Or is it the unspoken expectations of others?

That's impossible!

Thu, 13 Aug 2009 09:24:09 CST

Sometimes, as I look at the pastoral year ahead, the demands seem impossible. People to care for. Meetings to attend. Things to organize. Too many projects or deadlines.

Power Incognito

Thu, 13 Aug 2009 09:21:32 CST

I am convinced that there are ministry situations in which being a woman is an incredible advantage.

On Waiting in Line

Thu, 13 Aug 2009 09:18:48 CST

It happened, during the long wait in the seemingly endless serpentine lines at the security gate of LAX. I had a Bible in my briefcase, a message in my heart. I was on my way to deliver my soul to waiting ears; just give me an audience! But, was there another message I needed?

Role Model

Mon, 03 Aug 2009 08:17:31 CST

Someone once said, "Example isn't everything, it's the only thing." Positional authority (the fact that we have the title of pastor) will only get us so far. My grandmother, who was my greatest role model and a true saint, used to always tell me, "Pretty is as pretty does." It can also be said that a "Role model is as role model does."

Just An Ordinary Person

Mon, 03 Aug 2009 08:14:32 CST

Today, as most days, I am feeling extremely ordinary. Sometimes, along with feeling quite ordinary, the imperfect and inadequate side of me emerges. The truth is, there are a few of us who from time-to-time feel totally inept.

The Desire for Respect

Mon, 03 Aug 2009 08:10:55 CST

Before I became a woman in ministry, I was a woman in science. Earning and receiving respect for my knowledge and accomplishments was a natural part of academic life.

When God is Silent

Wed, 15 Jul 2009 10:30:07 CST

Is there anything more maddening than the roar of silence when you crave the thunder of God's voice? Even the still, small version would work, but ... nothing. Hello? Is Anyone out there? Father? Son? Holy Spirit? I'm not fussy!

Going Forward in the Presence of Fear

Wed, 15 Jul 2009 10:28:02 CST

There is much fear found as you walk the halls of a hospital. Many are receiving diagnoses that bring intense anxieties of the unknown. Recently, I had the privilege of walking with a patient who experienced fear at its height in her life.

Seasons of Grief

Wed, 15 Jul 2009 10:25:54 CST

Most of us can handle one or two perplexing issues at a time, but when we are barraged by one great problem or a series of emotional attacks that overwhelm our normal capacities to cope, we soon find ourselves in a downward spiral that takes with it our emotions, zeal, and energy.

Replete

Mon, 29 Jun 2009 10:29:27 CST

I'm stuffed. I've been visiting and praying with ministers and missionaries all week. So much life passes through my office - marriage, divorces, riches, poverty, great jobs and none, age and youth, opportunities and challenges.

Decrease

Mon, 29 Jun 2009 10:25:55 CST

To increase seems infinitely superior than to decrease. When our ministries increase, that is wonderful. More is always better, right? When the numbers swell and we have to build, that is good news. When we have more programs, things are happening for the glory of God. Or so it seems.

Hospitals and Funerals

Wed, 17 Jun 2009 08:48:13 CST

I have conducted many funerals over the years as a pastor. It seems like God chose to take a number of His people home on my watch. It was not that I objected to this aspect of ministry, for I worked with hospice before I began pastoring. I have always enjoyed hospital work and have had some powerful experiences with the dying. They have always given so much more to me than I have to them.

I Need Help

Wed, 17 Jun 2009 08:45:09 CST

Driving down the freeway, I finally came to one of those points where you "have it out" with God. In the last 6 months, three different times, God has shown me an area of my personality that He wanted to smooth out. The first time, I blew off the suggestion. The second time, I started listening. Now, I was looking for solutions and finding none.

Selling Out

Mon, 15 Jun 2009 15:43:59 CST

The most unlikely thing to bother me about moving is getting rid of stuff that can't travel. It seems almost unChristian even to think of such things when there are so many wonderful friendships and great memories, but I do.

Maddie and Me

Tue, 02 Jun 2009 15:48:11 CST

Last Christmas, my husband decided to act upon his lifelong dream of getting an English bulldog. To say I was less than thrilled is an understatement. I need another responsibility like I need a hole in the head. Our schedule in ministry is so busy, I don't have time to shave both legs in one day most of the time. So when he said, "I'm getting this puppy," I wanted to scream. Well, actually I did scream.

Peripheral Vision

Tue, 02 Jun 2009 15:42:45 CST

As I was driving down the highway, I found myself delighted by the sights of nature around me. A hawk in flight, a brightly-colored pheasant sunning himself on a hay bale, a mallard duck swimming on the glistening calm water, or the wild flowers in the ditch that were starting to unfold their beauty in the early days of spring - all of these things I noticed using peripheral vision as I remained focused on driving.

Facing Today's Philistine

Tue, 02 Jun 2009 15:39:13 CST

Not every day in King David's life was as exciting as the one that first made him famous. There wasn't a Philistine giant roaring curses on every hill, thank God. Between, there were other days. Days filled with music and laughter, the companionship of friends and wives, and the administration and building of a kingdom.

Missy the Muslim

Thu, 21 May 2009 09:37:38 CST

Weeks after 9-11, following our return to American from Pakistan, I was still reeling from our hurried and very emotional evacuation. The same terrorist acts that tumbled the twin towers in New York City were wreaking havoc in Pakistan, where locals and expatriates expected immediate retaliation from America. The U.S. embassy made it clear that we should all leave, at least temporarily. When things cooled down, we would be able to return.

Inside

Thu, 21 May 2009 09:36:21 CST

I like to look inside of things. I can't stand it when a present is just sitting there all wrapped up. I want to know what is underneath that ribbon! Maybe it's just that I enjoy peeling back and seeing how things are really made.

Staying Power

Thu, 21 May 2009 09:33:14 CST

It was nothing short of a power lunch. While speaking at a retreat, I found myself seated at a table with four amazing women: a district leader and pastor's wife, a pastor and presbyter, and two pastor's wives. Each had been at her church for over two decades. Where does that kind of staying power come from?

Feeding the Ministry

Thu, 07 May 2009 14:07:10 CST

A few years ago, I struggled with every obligation, ready to quit pastoral ministry. Inside, I was dying. My family felt like a burden. I couldn't stand going to church. Weddings and other "happy" events were agony. The minute we could politely leave, I would catch my husband's attention and bolt for home. Then in one month, I gained 5 pounds, on top of the 10 of the previous year. I was constantly ravenous. I wondered if my depression was related to food. It seemed absurd.

Freedom from ...Freedom to ...

Thu, 07 May 2009 14:00:39 CST

Freedom from has become the dominant focus of freedom in today's world, and even in the church. We love that dimension. Indeed, we have been set free, from sin and death, from our incapacity to live in communion with Him, with one another and with our environments.
However, there was a time when freedom had more of the meaning of freedom to...

The Renewal

Thu, 07 May 2009 13:56:38 CST

How often in the intensity of ministry have I experienced what appeared to be the death of a dream, a vision, a passion, and even a relationship? Sometimes, I have walked away - not physically, but in spirit - saying in my heart and to God, "It's dead. I've done all I can. My best efforts were futile. It just isn't going to happen."

What Our Church Could Look Like

Thu, 23 Apr 2009 09:36:46 CST

You've heard of the Pareto principle of 80/20 - 20 percent of the people in an organization do 80 percent of the work. As a pastor, you are most likely in that 20 percent and wish for more volunteers to help in your church's ministries.

The Forming of an International Student Gospel Choir

Thu, 23 Apr 2009 09:27:51 CST

Being a musician with not much time to pursue my musical interests gave me the idea to start a gospel choir at our Friday night international student gathering. It turned out to be a wonderful ministry idea for our international students.

The Fruit of Self-Discipline

Wed, 22 Apr 2009 10:17:41 CST

My neighbor and good friend was diagnosed with cancer 3 years ago. Soon after diagnosis, she underwent a mastectomy followed by extensive chemotherapy and radiation. The short country walk to her house would give me time to prepare my heart for the moments I would pray with her prior to treatments.

Security Check

Wed, 08 Apr 2009 09:45:54 CST

Once on the plane, I thought about how I escaped the first security check with the small army knife hidden in my purse. Even I didn't realize it was there. Focusing on the liquids I was carrying, airport security missed the real danger of the knife. Thinking about this led me to perform a security check on myself.

What is Hiding in Your Closet?

Wed, 08 Apr 2009 09:41:43 CST

Do you remember as a small child thinking that there was a monster under your bed or in your closet? Perhaps your father needed to shine a light in those areas before you were willing to go to sleep. Fathers are supposed to chase the dark monsters away that lurk in a child's imagination.

Flagged for Follow Up

Wed, 08 Apr 2009 09:35:51 CST

As I navigate through life, interacting with people, situations, and with my Creator and His Word, I find myself wishing for an internal "flag tool," some kind of self-reminder that there's a further action I need to take.

Flipping a Herring Over the Edge

Mon, 23 Mar 2009 15:59:01 CST

I almost fell off the edge today. Another volunteer dropped out of his job for an upcoming ministry event. Yes, "the Big Event" which is coming up in less than 3 weeks.

Testing Times

Mon, 23 Mar 2009 15:56:30 CST

Last week the police were sitting at my table, paging through our well-worn passports. We have lived in this country for 18 years and still we have imprinted on our 1-year residence permits " sejour temporar." As they left, one said, "We will let you know in 20 days if you can remain in this country."

An Exercise in Gratitude

Mon, 23 Mar 2009 15:53:41 CST

Just the slightest of creaks awakens me from the light sleep of the first night in a strange place. Lying on my side, I open my eyes. The large black silhouette mere inches from my right eye catapults me from the bed.

The Reality of Process

Wed, 11 Mar 2009 15:09:19 CST

I met some young female Bible college students, and we talked about their ministry aspirations. One said that immediately following graduation she planned to become a conference speaker, "like Joyce Meyer." Another chimed in with her plan to become the next Darlene Zschech. I was quietly amused that they thought they could achieve such ministries with ease.

Turbulence and a Veil

Wed, 11 Mar 2009 15:00:07 CST

And now the turbulence has settled fast in my own spirit. It grips me every time I see a veiled woman anywhere, whether it be in a Pakistani bazaar, in an upper crust Chicago restaurant, or on a Turkish Air flight to Asia. I wrestle with the injustice of the fact that I get to know God, and these women get to miss Him.

Peace Before Breakfast

Wed, 11 Mar 2009 14:57:02 CST

I wrote a lesson one Friday to teach the following Sunday, entitled, "Peace, Our Lord's Going Away Gift." I was inspired. I would teach about His choice to leave the message of peace over all other options like vengeance, getting even, or always winning. That was Friday.

What Aesop's Fable Taught Me about Ministry

Thu, 26 Feb 2009 12:50:37 CST

Aesop's fable about the tortoise and the hare challenged my own "hare-brained" thoughts about ministry. To grow a healthy church means I must lead by cultivating caring relationships that take time. "To do" lists and future goals are essential, but not at the price of unhurried time with people.

Reaching Disillusioned Young Adults

Thu, 26 Feb 2009 12:46:47 CST

Ministering to college students in Portland, Oregon, has given my husband, Vic, and me a front row seat on postmodern young adults. They are searching for something authentic and organic. Having grown up in the 60s, I understand wanting something real. I went on the same quest in my youth. Two important things happened when I was searching.

Wheat

Thu, 26 Feb 2009 12:39:48 CST

Wheat could get really comfortable being the best stalk it could be and become unbendable. Prophets could come along and tell it that the combine was not God's will because destruction doesn't come from God. But then wheat would never fulfill its next purpose.

The Power in Our Struggles

Fri, 13 Feb 2009 10:18:31 CST

As of one of seven children, I know what sibling rivalry is. The sibling rivalry in my family was fierce. Rivalry also can develop in ministry families.

One Little Word

Fri, 13 Feb 2009 10:14:03 CST

In the book of Colossians, the apostle Paul uses one little word, let, to open up a world of big things that require the tenacious attention of women in missionary ministry.

I Could Get Uptight About This

Fri, 13 Feb 2009 10:05:08 CST

Many reasons abound for getting uptight in the ministry. I often get weary dealing with it all. In fact, how does a person actually manage to handle all these stressors?

Something to Say

Fri, 30 Jan 2009 09:22:33 CST

Rather than living on a roller coaster of hope and despair, I have learned that fine art of confident resignation to God's faithful arms. I have learned that when God gives an assignment, because it is His reputation that is at stake, He will see it through to completion.

Dancing at Midnight

Fri, 30 Jan 2009 09:19:16 CST

Zimbabwe is a country in total chaos. The inflation rate is over 10,000 percent. There is no medicine in the hospitals, no fuel for the vehicles, and no food on the grocery store shelves. In the midst of this crisis, there are people who love Jesus intensely and have found the joy of the Lord is truly their strength and hope.

We Can Do It

Fri, 30 Jan 2009 09:14:56 CST

At times in ministry, it can still feel like we are earning our way in a male-dominated trade. I challenge you not to try to dominate or be in control, but instead to become a leader who brings others around her.

To Be or Not To Be

Thu, 15 Jan 2009 13:41:47 CST

I used to get up every morning with a to-do list in mind. The more things I was able to cross out at the end of the day, the better I felt. This changed when we arrived on the mission field.

Take Your Time

Wed, 17 Dec 2008 11:53:52 CST

So how can ministry moms blend the call of God and family without merely marking time until the kids grow up?

An Interruptible Life

Wed, 17 Dec 2008 11:49:15 CST

What would it look like to live an interruptible life these days? Jesus' life was simple enough that He wasn't upset or overcome by an intrusion into His planned schedule. He knew that if He just followed His Father's daily agenda, He would be right where He was supposed to be and complete everything on His Father's to-do list.

Food Addiction and Ministry

Wed, 17 Dec 2008 10:32:06 CST

On an August day 4 years ago I was in my doctor's office hearing the hated question: "When are you going to drop some weight?" It wasn't the first time. I was so irritated that I snapped, "How much will it take to get you off of my back?" She replied, "Twenty-five pounds by February." That seemed impossible.

Corrine's Crash

Wed, 17 Dec 2008 10:24:11 CST

Corrine's* crash happens half way around the world. It isn't her fault, and the driver of the other vehicle doesn't have accident insurance. Nevertheless, attending officers blame her for it.

It Is Good

Wed, 17 Dec 2008 10:21:27 CST

As I progressed through the first decade of my adult life, I confronted multiple major challenges, defeats, and setbacks. My thoughts often wondered to the famous question we all ask God, "Why would you let this kind of pain happen to me?"

Preaching to a Multicultural Audience

Tue, 16 Dec 2008 15:04:46 CST

Although these methods are not new, I find them valuable in presenting the gospel to a multicultural audience.

Leftovers

Tue, 16 Dec 2008 15:00:20 CST

Ministry is taxing. Daily we pour into the lives of others. But who pours into you? Who pours in to me?

The Phone Call

Tue, 16 Dec 2008 14:53:18 CST

I was already at my office when my cell phone rang. I smiled as I viewed the number. My 20-year old daughter, touring with her university summer ministry team, provided weekly updates of her travels. The summary of the last week’s events proved full of delightful stories, but what followed was a rare treasure for a parent.

The Next Generation of World Changers

Fri, 05 Dec 2008 10:11:34 CST

Women in pastoral positions all share one common responsibility — to be an active example to the young women who will follow in ministry leadership. It is our responsibility and our honor to parent, encourage, and spend time with the next generation of world changers.

One Small Picture

Fri, 05 Dec 2008 10:08:18 CST

In Africa, pictures of my family are very important to me. They hang on the walls, they are stuck to the refrigerator, and they flash across my computer screen. One picture is particularly special.

Let's Fast Christmas

Fri, 05 Dec 2008 10:06:20 CST

Let’s fast Christmas. Before you decide that I must be Scrooge and need a similar heart-changing experience, let me explain.

Sometimes, It's Who You Know...

Wed, 19 Nov 2008 14:38:56 CST

At the Conversations 08 conference in Phoenix this fall, speakers encouraged us to find mentors and coaches who are ahead, beside, and behind us on the ministry journey. I had no trouble checking off a list. God has brought wonderful people into my life and church, and each one has shaped me.

Partnering With Other Organizations

Wed, 19 Nov 2008 14:34:16 CST

What started with a handful of workers and students in 1995 has blossomed into an outreach to over 800 students a year. How did we make this happen?

Let's Fly!

Wed, 19 Nov 2008 14:19:56 CST

God doesn’t have any small jobs. Everything in Kingdom work is important. When humans apply their sin-warped scale of greatness to mission, that is when unchecked egos cause damage and debased ones shrink from their God-designed destinies.

From Obscurity to the Spotlight

Thu, 06 Nov 2008 09:56:58 CST

Sometimes people catapult to fame, coming into the limelight from the starting gate. Others, like Philip, are faithfully obedient and emerge into leadership positions that surprise them and delight bystanders.

The Price of Our Calling

Thu, 06 Nov 2008 09:47:09 CST

Calling comes with a price tag. It is obvious that obedience requires certain sacrifices on the part of the called. It is hard, though, to watch those dearest to me have to pay for my choices. It is even harder when they are my own children.

Love Letters

Thu, 06 Nov 2008 09:43:39 CST

To be strong leaders, we must confront and expose our deep-rooted issues, rather than follow any desire to be pacified and cradled from fears. We uncover and overcome our fears through God’s problem-solving letters.

The Minister's Wife: Lucy Maude Montgomery

Fri, 17 Oct 2008 13:46:08 CST

The legacy Lucy left behind, however, is not told by record books or real estate. Her 11 books touching on common life issues have inspired me a century later.

Words of Criticism or Words from God?

Mon, 22 Sep 2008 14:38:57 CST

"Here, let me straighten your skirt." From a friend, those words would have been welcome, but on this morning, they were from a woman in the church who always had a word of advice for me. My hackles went up, and I felt myself get defensive. All because my slip was showing and she wanted to help.