Answer each question either yes, no or sometimes. You will not be asked to share this form with anyone.
1. I have at least one friend of the same sex with whom I can share my feelings.
2. I have at least two friends of the opposite sex (single or married) with whom I can comfortably talk.
3. I am involved in one group where there are both men and women.
4. I am involved in one group where there are singles and marrieds.
5. I am aware of travel and service opportunities open primarily to singles.
6. I have studied the Scriptural view of my sex directly from the Bible so I have determined for myself what assumptions about my sex are true and what are not.
7. I can point to three personal improvements I have made this last year to make myself more aware, interesting, and better rounded to serve God as a total person.
8. I honestly like myself.
9. I like my body, my hair, and my clothes.
10. I'm glad I'm the sex I am.
11. I can list at least four advantages a single person of my sex often has over his/her married counterpart.
12. I accept my sexual drives as good, and I purposely channel that energy into other areas. I am certain that in this area of my life I am in fellowship with God.
13. I look forward to having sexual relations with my wife/husband if I should marry.
14. I can be alone without being lonely.
15. I have a job or am in training for a job which I am proud of and through which I can earn my own living.
16. The job I have or am training for has equal advancement opportunities for both sexes.
17. I can manage money. I can handle contracts, credit, business arrangements, and car and household repairs. (This involves knowing whom to contact for expert help.)
18. I see myself as head of my home/apartment, responsible to God for hospitality and service, just as a married person would be.
19. I look forward to the future.
Developed as part of a seminar on single living.
